Talented Yoruba actress, Bridget Amos, has come for men in one of her
instagram posts, calling them confused and don’t really know what they want.
Bridget said; if you cook and wash their clothes, they see you as
someone being desperate for marriage, and if you don’t they say you are not a
wife material.
If you are beautiful, they would say you can’t stay with one man; if
you are not, you are not up to the standard; if you ask for money you are too
demanding and if you don’t, you are forming”.
The Kwara State-born beauty who joined Nollywood around 2008 and has
made films of her own said;
“What do you really want? So complicated and confusing to please. If
you try to please them, you are cheap; if you make love to them you are a love
peddler; if you don’t, you are playing hard to get; if you show them love you
are too emotional.
If you give them attention, you are bugging them, and if you don’t, you
are with other men. If you dress sexy you are attracting other men, if you
don’t, you are awkward and local. If you cook; wash their clothes, you are
desperate of getting married, if you don’t , you are not a wife material”
“If you’re independent you are chasing other men; if you are dependent
you are a liability. If you try to satisfy them in bed you are a sex addict; if
you don’t, you are making sex boring. If you get pregnant you want to trap them
down; if you don’t, you have damaged your womb.
If you are beautiful, you can’t stay with one man; if you are not, you
are not up to the standard; if you ask for money you are too demanding and if you
don’t, you are forming”. Then, she hits the nail on the head, “they think we
can’t do without them. At times, I don’t think they know what they want”.
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